ASK A NEW YORK STYLIST ~ Stylish at Sixty

May 15th, 2012

Q: I am a woman in my early 60s who enjoys dressing nicely and keeping up with the current trends. Unfortunately, it seems like most stores cater to women in their twenties and thirties, or they sell “old lady” clothes. There doesnʼt seem to be a whole lot in-between. Iʼm too old for mini skirts and shorts with “hottie” written across the back, but Iʼm not ready for elastic-waist pants and sweatshirts embroidered with kittens, either! Where can I go to find some summer clothes that are affordable, stylish, and age-appropriate?

A: First, kudos for not falling victim to those dreadful kitten sweatshirts! (Why retailers think that women of any age want to plaster themselves with calico flowers and appliques of baby animals remains something of a mystery.) Fortunately, most fashion trends can be adapted to fit women of any age. Below are three of the seasonʼs most talked-about trends, as well as some shopping suggestions to get you started.

1. Tangerine

Call it tangerine, call it sherbet, call it melon. No matter which delicious name you choose, youʼre sure to notice this summery shade popping up everywhere from sneakers to swimwear. And while their neon cousins might be best-reserved for the very young, most orange and coral tones are more than appropriate for grownups! To start, pair a tailored white Bermuda short with a silk blouse or loose-fitting sweater (like this one by Ann Taylor Loft) in the seasonʼs hottest hue. Or, flip things around and try a bright-colored capri pant with a neutral top. For dressier occasions, go for a knee-length dress like the Cap-Sleeved Geometric Print Dress by Kate Hill or the Lena Shirtdress by Lauren Ralph Lauren. If youʼre just easing your way into the tangerine trend, a sherbet-colored shoe, like the Meg Espadrille by Michael Michael Kors, is a great place to start. Another tip? Donʼt completely rule out those trendy too-young-for-me stores. This chic Banana Republic scarf would look great on women of any age.

2. Color Blocking

Color blocking—which pretty much looks exactly the way it sounds—is right on trend for spring and summer. For an age-appropriate way to wear this multicolored melange, look for dresses and skirts (avoid anything uber-short) featuring large sections of contrasting colors. At just $22, this Liz Claiborne dress is an easy way to test drive the trend without making a huge investment, while the tangerine-toned Sleeveless Colorblock Dress by Jones New York Collection combines two of this seasonʼs hottest trends. (Worried about bare shoulders? Pair your dress with a lightweight cardigan in a contrasting color for an added layer of interest.) Shoes and accessories are another affordable way to bring color blocking into your summer wardrobe. Fun choices include the Bandolino Sling Color Block Sandal (a steal at $49.95!), the Sperry Montauk Leather Boat Shoe, the Pash Colorblock Leather Flat by Calvin Klein, and the Cole Haan Jitney Tote.

3. Bold Prints

Bold prints—both floral and geometric—are making a big splash for summer. If youʼre a larger-framed woman, go for a dress in an all-over print (like this Charter Club faux wrap dress, available at Macyʼs) or a flowy print caftan. If youʼre petite, choose smaller-scale prints and limit them to one piece of your outfit, such as a blouse or skirt. Chicoʼs has a good selection of summery print tops and bottoms, with most items available in sizes made to fit smaller women. And if all-over prints arenʼt your thing, keep in mind that a bold print shoe (like the J. Crewʼs Cece Printed Ballet Flat) looks great on just about anyone!

Rebecca Frey is a costume designer, wardrobe stylist, and personal shopper. She has worked on Late Night with Jimmy FallonSaturday Night Live, and Conan, and is also the owner of Seek New York, a NYC-based company that provides a friendly, low-pressure approach to style and offers personalized shopping tours with licensed NYC guides. Every Tuesday, she answers your most pressing shopping-related quandaries. Need Becky’s help? Email your questions to emily@askanewyorker.com.

 

YORKVILLE: STOOPS TO NUTS ~ Dad’s Paper Route

May 11th, 2012

“The royal ass has been wiped!”

Mom would make this announcement from the bathroom as Rory and I drank Tang and ate burnt toast in the kitchen. We’d hear Dad moaning to himself in his bedroom.

After Dad went to the bathroom each morning, Mom would examine how much toilet paper remained on the roll. Dad was out of control when it came to products—Silver Foil, Wax Paper, Brillo, Saran Wrap. If he washed dishes, the soap flowed like a Las Vegas fountain; if the table needed drying, Dad swung a roll of paper towels around like a lasso. “Yahoo!” Cowboy Bob screamed, and round and round the roll would go, paper filling the air like a Chinese New Year. Mom would go friggin’ nuts. Rory and I would duck.

Products were purchased with Mom’s house money, and the house money budget never went up. Year in, year out, Mom made her case but Dad kept the allowance where it was and continued to use the soap and paper products like he was auditioning to replace Shirley Booth in Hazel.

One rainy afternoon, when I was five and Rory was three, Dad decided to give us a lesson on how to wipe our butts. We sat on the edge of the tub. Dad took the stage at the front of the bowl. Our bathroom was five feet wide and seven feet long.

“You see what I’m doing with my hand? See the way I’m rolling the paper around and around? That’s what you do before you wipe. Cover your hand like a bandaged wound, and only then do you go in and finish the job. Gotta be clean down there when you leave.”

Rory and I humored Dad with a quick nod, then gave each other a quicker look that said, “He’s out of his mind.”

Mom came in the bathroom at the end of the lesson and said, “If you use that much paper, I’ll kill the three of you.”

Pat & Bob Pryor, 1968

Thomas Pryor has been featured on A Prairie Home Companion and This American Life, and his work has appeared in the New York Times. He curates City Stories: Stoops to Nuts, a storytelling show at the Cornelia Street Café on the second Tuesday of the month (next one May 8th). Check out his blog Yorkville: Stoops to Nuts.

TALKING TO THE WALLS ~ East River Mary

May 11th, 2012

The sunset view from the Trump World Tower at United Nations Plaza was magical and dizzying. High above Manhattan, we found ourselves eye-level with a glowing Empire State building. In the distance, the jeweled, twinkling arms of three bridges pointed the way to Brooklyn and Queens. But the lights also drew attention to a shadow in the river—a wooded island that I’d seen countless times before but which now looked especially sad and mysterious. After dinner, the conversation turned to the strange place and its most famous resident.

When Mary Mallon left Ireland at 15 in 1884, she had already survived years of poverty, loss, and disease. Every bout of suffering had brought death to those around her, but seemed to only make Mary stronger. She arrived in the city penniless and determined to make a better life for herself. Instead, she found herself in living in Lower East Side tenements in the same conditions she had struggled to escape back home. Through hard work and determination, Mary fought her way out of poverty by mastering the art of cooking. Gifted and in demand, she soon became a cook for some of the wealthiest families in New York. For twenty years she lived as a prosperous, independent woman in a city that thrilled her.

Unfortunately for Mary, typhoid fever seemed to follow her wherever she went. When the disease, associated in the public mind with slums and tenements, reached a summer estate where she was temporarily employed, it became clear to a hired investigator that Mary was the cause. He discovered that she had infected six out of her previous eight employers. When a child died of typhoid fever in yet another household where she’d recently been employed, Mary was taken to a dismal island in the East River. It was North Brother Island, the very place we spied from high atop Trump World Tower.

Mary was quarantined at North River Island’s Riverside Hospital. Tests seemed to indicate that Mary was a “healthy carrier” of the disease, and she spent the next three years alone in a cottage that faced the exciting city she loved. She passed the time writing angry, indignant letters to the press about the unfairness of her situation. When she was finally released, it was under one condition—that she never return to cooking. Her disease had made her a threat to society.

Mary kept her promise, but with no way of earning an income she was soon broke. She moved back into a tenement and laundered clothes for small wages until she couldn’t take it any longer. Convinced that she was healthy, she accepted a position at (of all places) a maternity hospital. In short order, 25 people contracted typhoid fever and two died of the disease. Mary, now known as ‘Typhoid Mary,” was reinstated at North Brother Island. The hospital staff was friendly toward her, and she was allowed to visit the city once a week. She kept a dog for company, and she lived on that small patch of land in the East River until her death 26 years later, at the age of 69. It is estimated that she infected 47 people with typhoid fever and caused the deaths of three more. North River Island was abandoned in 1963, and today it is a protected nesting area for rare and endangered birds.

Born and raised in New York, Maria Gorshin is a frequent contributor to West Side Rag and Untapped Cities. She delves into the secrets of New York architecture on the second Friday of every month in her column “Talking to the Walls.” Check out her blog at CityGirlWrites.